2 leeches order $200 entrées, get angry when their friends cancel their entrées so they don't have to split the bill 6 ways: 'Dan, who probably only ate around $50 worth of food, was stuck with a $146.98 check at the end'

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    AITA for not ordering any food so I wouldn't have to split the bill?
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    I(27M) have been apart of a small friend group, around 8 people total, basically since college. For some background, 2 people from the group, Susan and Greg, are just absolute leeches. Going out for lunch? Expect them to order the most expensive on the menu then feed you some sob story about their finances and then dumb half the bill on you.
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    Last weekend, Dan, one of the people from the group, told me about a casual dinner. I told him how if Susan or Greg were there I wouldn't be able to come. He tells me that they would be there but I should just put my opinions aside and come just once. This is kind of where I might be an AH. I agreed with him and told him I would be there. I show up and we all get to talking.
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    Everyone began putting in their orders, most of them spent about $40. There were only about 6 people there. When it gets to Susan and Greg, they both order expensive dishes, around $200. When it was my turn to order, everyone looked at me, but I just pick up the menu and point to the $4 Miller Lite and sent the waiter away. Dan asked why I hadn't ordered anything and all I said was that I lost my appetite. The other 2 friends got up as well to cancel their orders and just have drinks.
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    After the main courses came out, I saw Susan and Greg picking at their food. The waiter then brings over the check. Greg then grabs the waiter and asks him to split the check 6 ways. I stand up and correct him saying the check was to be split 3 ways. Greg looks at me confused and asks why since we "always" split the bill. I reminded him that 3 of us had not eaten any food so we would just be paying for our drinks. So basically at the end of the night, Dan, who probably only ate around $50 worth
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    I slid a $10 towards the check, said goodbye everyone, and walked out. The next morning, I found my phone full of texts from Greg and Susan telling me I was an AH for not ordering any food and forcing them to pay more than they had accounted for. I honestly laughed because the steaks alone were more than what they had paid but to each their own right?
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    I also got a lot of messages from Dan saying that I could have just not came instead of pulling that stunt and getting him stuck with an outrageous bill.
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    SamSpayed PI 1 day ago NTA Is it not possible to ask the waiter for separate checks -i.e., everyone gets their own check for what they ordered-ahead of time? While some people think this is a little tacky, it's not anywhere near as tacky as ordering a meal that costs five times as much as anyone else's, and expecting them to cover it.
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    Additional-Wasabi357 OP 1 day ago It's not very common in Australia, its just usually common courtesy to just order within what everyone else is ordering so you can split the check at the end. Most restaurants refuse as well but I get your point.
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    Apart-Ad-6518 1 day ago edited 1 day ago '... just usually common courtesy to just order within what everyone else is ordering" These 2 people are repeatedly openly leeching off the rest of you. The solution here seems to be to stop inviting them out. Or being friends with them. They've left" common courtesy" so far behind it's a forgotten concept & elevated taking the p**s to an entirely new level.
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    OkeyDokey654 - 1 day ago Or order something that costs even more than what they ordered, if you can afford it, , order two entrees just to make a point. and take one home.
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    bobhand17123 - 1 day ago I like this, OP. Save up if you have to. Call it the Susan and Greg Spite Fund.
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    DctrBanner 1 day ago The other two that canceled their food orders 100% knew what he was doing and decided to follow suit. Strange that the leeches keep getting invited out at all.
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    Candy Canez - 1 day ago "Strange that the leeches keep getting invited out at all." It makes you wonder who is inviting the leeches. If they aren't being asked who's telling them where they're eating? Someone wants them there, and I'd bet right now from this story it's probably Dan.
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    Deedles D 1 day ago Nah, that noise. As a fellow Australian, stop splitting the bill, and make it very clear to all attending that you are happy to meet with them but you will only be paying your own meal. When you request the bill you can work out what you owe and all transfer to one person (whomever spent the most) or pay for only what you ordered. That is perfectly normal and acceptable social behaviour. And start organising social get together without inviting the moochers. Friends don't tre
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    Pale_Needleworker924 1 day ago Even if you were actually not hungry, I would still say NTA. They clearly premeditated this whole event and expected others to take the financial fall for their lifestyle. Hope Dan opens his eyes, but right now, they seem superglued shut. Good for you though.
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    Additional-Wasabi357 OP 1 day ago Yeah they do this all the time, I guess I was feeling a little cheeky that night. Dan's a bit stubborn but I wouldn't be surprised if he still thinks I was in the wrong and not them.

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